Why I don’t say “NO” when training dogs
When I train dogs, I want to be as clear as I possibly can, I also want to make sure that when I’m working my dogs I don’t damage our relationship in the process. Using the term no doesn’t provide clear guidance to your dog. It can interrupt behaviour but doesn’t tell the dog what you’d like them to do. Here’s some reasons why I avoid using the term “No” or even making noises such as Uh uh…
1. Clarity
Dogs need clear consistent direction in order to learn. It much clearer for the dog if you ask them for a specific behaviour rather than just saying no. Imagine you were being taught something by someone, how would you feel if you were trying your best but the person kept saying no at you?
2. Positive reinforcement 
It is no secret that a great way to build reliable behaviour is the use of positive reinforcement, if the dog offers the correct behaviour and is rewarded appropriately, they are much more likely to repeat that behaviour. This style of training helps create trust and builds the bond with your dog, which let’s face it is essential when you come to unclip your lead!
3. Avoiding Negative Associations
Using “No” repeatedly can create a negative environment for the dog, potentially leading to confusion or fear, especially if this is not followed up with guidance on what was actually required. Some dogs are quite sensitive, my collies are always reading my emotions and would get anxious if I kept telling them no. This can lead to a barrier in learning, created by the handler. Much easier to prevent the worry in the dog by showing them what you would like them to do instead. A good example of this is jumping up. If your dog jumps up at you and you keep pushing them down saying “no” the dog might get worried which in turn can lead to more jumping up for appeasement.
4. Focus on Training Goals
Rather than focussing on what the dog shouldn’t do, a good trainer should help you to focus on what the dog should do. This makes learning feel more enjoyable rather than a series of corrections which could switch the dog off from the handler and from training.
To conclude
Although I am a positive trainer I am not permissive! But this does not mean I have to say ‘No”. Instead I will ask for an incompatible appropriate behaviour. This helps the dog to understand what is required but also prevents the handler/dog relationship from going sour. Trust is so important when working with dogs.
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